In my last post I mentioned I had found some places that did packaged wedding deals for about 7K so I had kept my budget at that 10K. It turns out that there were other expenses that I hadn't considered. For one thing, there is an additional 27.25% cost on top of the listed price for gratuity, service, and sales tax. One in particular that I liked also charged an extra $700 for the ceremony. All these costs pushed the packaged deal over 10K and I wouldn't have anything left for invites, flowers, attire, photographer, decorations, etc.
After talking to several brides and wives that have been through this, 10K is completely unrealistic. My new budget is 20K and even that is with sacrifices.
Those of you that are thinking I'm splurging and wasting money on "only one day" need to get a reality check. YOU try and plan a wedding and see how far it gets you. In the bay area, California, EVERYTHING is more expensive. The cost of living is so sky high here, that the cost of everything from flowers, to food, to service is higher than other places.
The major items that seem to be sticky price points are the venue and the food. One fellow bride explained to me that because we are in an area that is so fully developed, there are not many gardens or natural looking areas that would be suitable for a wedding. Because there are less options, less competition, and therefore higher costs. Food is also more expensive because of service costs.
Another huge cost that has been difficult to wrap my head around is a Photographer. Originally I was thinking of having a friend or perhaps someone just starting out in wedding photography do it at low to nothing cost and just give me the high res/raw files (no prints). But after talking to a Photographer friend who explained to me that photographers HATE doing weddings, I am realizing that its best to go with someone who does weddings professionally.
I'll be visiting two venues this weekend. One is currently at the top of the running.
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