My big fat stinky rant!!!!

Day before yesterday, i went over to my ex's house, seeing as how my sister suggested i go talk to him because he's working for his sister this week (whoopde-damn-dinghy) because I am flat broke and I need money.  She also suggested that I try to work things out for the sake of my unborn son, i said I would try but no promises.  Well I go over there and I'm like "Why arent you at work?" because he was supposed to be working that day, and hes all like "Oh I dont work till tomorrow, and I'm sick." (Then runs to the loo and tosses his cookies with the door open, real classy, and real considerate to someone with nausea problems)  I was like, well, Robb, I need cash, I'm flat broke and I need money, because I am out of a lot of stuff.  Then he turns to me like, GOD I am always taking care of you, when are you gonna take care of me?  I was like Robb, youre 30 years old, frigging quit whining and act like it already!  Like youre really taking care of me so well.  Feh, you dont even care.  (I started to get upset and on came the waterworks... ) and then he tries to get money from his brother, but then again he didnt really try and then called his sister, who usually pays him up front for the work he does and i found out hes not getting paid till the 3rd or 4th of next month.  As soon as we got back to his place, I was like, well great, I get to tell my sister that we aint got no cash, and my nephew is out of baby food.   And he changed the subject, and said, "Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you, me, my brother, and his friend are going to a baseball game in Seattle in July." I went off.  " MY BABY IS DUE IN JULY YOU IDIOT."  Robb looked at me all shocked like this was news to him.  "I know that!"  I got so pissed I turned white.  "you arent gonna stick around to welcome your baby into the world?"  Robb looked at me (and i wanted to deck him after this next comment, I was so furious)  "What makes you think that I'm the kids father? I want a paternity test."  I went off again.  "PATERNITY TEST MY BUTT! THIS KID IS YOURS!"  at that point I was like "You know what, go enjoy your baseball game, I'll get along fine without you.  You really need to act your age, instead of acting like a 13 year old with a drinking problem."   This isnt meant to offend anyone of the male half of the species, its just a rant about a male that should not even be referred to as a man, because he's not.  On a more positive note, I quit smoking.  Yay me.

That is absolutely ridiculous!  What the heck is wrong with that guy?  I'm so sorry!

Yup, once again, I am so glad that you left that guy. He sounds like such a lazy, incompetent jerk!

You're much better off without him, Majin Naruru! I wish you the best of luck with the baby, and everything else.

And don't worry, there are plenty of awesome people out there, I'm sure you'll find someone much better than him, when you're ready for another relationship.

Stay strong! We're all backing you up here!

Thanks, you guys.  it is so hard to find a decent mate these days, let alone a real man thats willing to care for a child.  i heard that my sister heard Robb's brother say that in addition to me, he has another woman pregnant.  EW. whotta jerk.

What a (insert words I'm not allowed to write here that start with an "f", then a 2 word phrase starting with "a" and ending with "h" !  I can't believe this guy?  Where in the world do people like that come from?  I'm so sorry.  I'm glad you got out before things got too messy.  Good luck with everything!  Much love!

I don't know where you live and i don't know if your goverment 'gives' money to help out the people who needs it. But if not, move over here in Canada, you'll be able to have a bit of money for a while at least and take care of yourself, if this guy is incapable of helping you out. Knowing me, i'd rather eat my socks than to ask him. Makes me angry just to read it...grrrr...

Anywho, congratulation on your quitting of smoking and keep it up! Also, there are some good men out there, dont let this 2 watt bulbhead make you angry against the rest of the masculine gent. Its sad when people start to generalise because they had a few bad experiences. If i'd let my bad relationships (and i'm not only talking of men, since i had only 2, but my family and all) I would be living in a forest not talking to another human being for the rest of my life. There are some good people out there...dont lose faith! Mwah and all my most positive thought to you.

Update!!!! I went over to collect the money he was supposed to give me when he got paid (and we'd already agreed upon this two months ago) He hid behind his family and said that he's not going to give me anything til it is proven that the child i am carrying is his.  OH MY GAWD!  I literally blew a gasket yesterday.  I screamed at him for an hour and a half and then the chicken**** decided to hide behind his damn family.  All hes doing is asking for a war with my family because he said some really nasty things about them.    one of my friends volunteered to hex him!  ahhh!  God, I hope someday I'll find a REAL man.