I don't think two people could be more mentally "in tune" than Kurt and I. (Kurt = hetero lifemate. I don't like calling him "the boyfriend," it seems too impersonal.)
All day yesterday I was craving chocolate... and I usually don't get cravings for much of anything, but yesterday, I couldn't get it out of my head that I needed chocolate. Badly. And not just any chocolate, but something well made. (I was being fussy, I guess.) I went to bed extremely early, (think eight o'clock), from a very long day at work, and Kurt said he was going to go run some errands. I never mentioned the craving to him because I figured it was just irrelevent, silly and would go away on its own. So I fell asleep and didn't think about it again.
I woke up this morning and there was a Toblerone bar on my desk from Kurt.
Now maybe he was just being sweet, but I prefer to think we're just really in tune with each other. Whatever it is, I'm happy with either outcome; either we feel each other on an extremely deep level, or I have a thoughtful boyfriend who brings me chocolate just because he thought of me. Either one is good enough for me.