one builds oneself in the difficult moments and one comes out from it grown afterwards. It is sure that it does not have anything pleasant to pass by these moments there, but I realize that sometimes, it is almost impossible to control what falls you above into life.
Thank you ever so much for your words of wisdom. I wish I had them at the time but alas I was alone which kinda amplified the hurt I was feeling. I survived though as you said and I think a stronger person has come out of it.